Assertiveness: A Lesson from History

Dear friends, today I want to share a story with you, a story that taught me the importance of assertiveness. It’s a tale from my past, set against the backdrop of a historical landmark that has stood the test of time, much like the lesson it imparted.

The Journey Begins

It was a bright, sunny day when I set foot on the cobblestone paths of the Gettysburg National Military Park. The air was filled with the echoes of a past that had shaped the course of our nation’s history. I was there with a group of fellow history enthusiasts, eager to soak in the tales of valor and sacrifice.

The Guide and the Group

Our guide was a man of few words, his face etched with the lines of time and experience. He began the tour with a brief introduction, and then we were off, walking in the footsteps of soldiers who had fought bravely on that very ground.

As we moved from one point of interest to another, I noticed a peculiar thing. Our guide, though knowledgeable, was rather soft-spoken. His voice was often drowned out by the chatter of the group, and his attempts to assert control were met with little success.

The Turning Point

At the heart of the battlefield, standing before the High Water Mark Monument, the guide was struggling to be heard. It was then that I decided to step in. I raised my voice, not in anger, but with assertiveness, requesting the group to maintain silence and respect the guide’s efforts.

And to my surprise, they listened. The chatter ceased, and all eyes turned to the guide, who, with newfound confidence, continued his narration. The rest of the tour went smoothly, and we all left with a deeper understanding of the historical significance of Gettysburg.

The Lesson Learned

That day, I learned a valuable lesson. Assertiveness is not about being aggressive or domineering. It’s about standing up for what’s right, about making your voice heard when it matters. It’s about respect, for yourself and for others.

So, my dear friends, don’t shy away from being assertive when the situation calls for it. Remember, your voice matters. Make it heard.

Until next time,

Kev