Neutrality: A Lesson from the Slopes

Dear friends, today I want to share a story with you, a story that taught me a valuable lesson about neutrality. It’s a tale from my younger days, set against the backdrop of a thrilling skiing trip. So, grab a cup of tea, settle in, and let’s journey back in time together.

The Skiing Trip

It was the winter of ’78, and I found myself on the snowy slopes of Aspen, Colorado. I was there with a group of friends, all eager to conquer the mountain. We were a diverse bunch, each with our own set of beliefs, opinions, and attitudes. But on that mountain, we were united by a common goal – to ski down the slope without falling flat on our faces.

The Dispute

One evening, a heated debate broke out among us. The topic? The best way to tackle the slopes. Some argued for a cautious approach, slowly navigating the twists and turns. Others championed a more daring strategy, racing down the mountain at breakneck speed. The debate raged on, with neither side willing to back down.

The Lesson

As the argument escalated, I found myself in the middle, not aligning with either side. I realized that both approaches had their merits and drawbacks. The cautious approach ensured safety but lacked thrill. The daring approach was exhilarating but risky. I chose to remain neutral, understanding that there was no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way, just different perspectives.

And that’s when it hit me – the beauty of neutrality. It’s not about being indecisive or lacking an opinion. It’s about understanding and respecting the diversity of thoughts and perspectives. It’s about finding a balance, a middle ground. It’s about peace.

Neutrality in Life

Just like on that skiing trip, life often presents us with situations where we’re torn between opposing viewpoints. It’s easy to get swept up in the heat of the moment, to pick a side and stick to it. But remember, it’s okay to step back, to remain neutral. It’s okay to listen, understand, and respect all perspectives. Because, at the end of the day, life isn’t about winning arguments, it’s about learning, growing, and finding balance.

So, the next time you find yourself in the middle of a heated debate, remember the lesson from the slopes. Embrace neutrality, find your balance, and ski down the mountain of life with grace and wisdom.

Until next time, keep learning, keep growing, and remember – life is a journey, not a destination.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev