First Date Wisdom: The Power of Genuineness

Dear friends, today I want to share a story from my youth, a tale that taught me the importance of being genuine. It’s a lesson that has served me well throughout my life, and I hope it will do the same for you.

The First Date

It was the summer of ’58, and I was a young lad of 17. I had managed to gather the courage to ask out the prettiest girl in town, Mary. I was nervous, excited, and terrified all at once. I wanted to impress her, to show her I was worth her time.

So, I decided to pretend to be someone I wasn’t. I borrowed my older brother’s fancy clothes, rehearsed some big words from the dictionary, and even lied about my interests to match hers. I thought this was the way to win her heart.

The Unraveling

But as the evening progressed, I could see the confusion in Mary’s eyes. My attempts to impress her were backfiring. The fancy words felt forced, the clothes uncomfortable, and the lies about my interests were hard to keep up with. The date was a disaster.

The Lesson

After that night, I realized the mistake I had made. I had tried to be someone I wasn’t, and it had cost me. I decided then and there to always be genuine, to be true to myself. And you know what? It made all the difference.

When I asked Mary for a second date, this time as myself, she agreed. We shared many wonderful moments after that, moments that were genuine and true. And it all started with the decision to be myself.

Why Genuineness Matters

Being genuine is not just about being honest with others, it’s about being honest with yourself. It’s about embracing who you are, with all your strengths and weaknesses. It’s about showing the world your true self, not a version you think they want to see.

And trust me, people can tell when you’re being genuine. They appreciate it. They respect it. And most importantly, they connect with it.

Final Thoughts

So, my dear friends, remember this: Be genuine. Be true to yourself. It’s the best way to connect with others and to live a fulfilling life. And who knows, it might just land you a second date.

Until next time,

Kev