Discretion: A Lesson from a Funeral
Dear friends, today I’d like to share a story from my past, a tale that taught me the value of discretion. It’s a lesson I learned at a funeral, of all places. Now, don’t worry, this isn’t a tale of gloom and doom. Rather, it’s a story of understanding, empathy, and the power of silence.
The Funeral
Many moons ago, I attended the funeral of a dear friend. Let’s call him Tom. Tom was a man of great character, full of life and laughter. His sudden departure left a void in our hearts, and his funeral was a somber affair.
As is customary, after the service, people gathered to share stories about Tom. Some were funny, others poignant, but all were heartfelt. Then, a man I didn’t recognize took the floor. He began to share a story about Tom that was, let’s say, less than flattering.
The Lesson
As the man spoke, I could see the discomfort growing in the room. People shifted in their seats, exchanged glances, and the air grew heavy. It was clear this was not the time or place for such a story. Yet, the man seemed oblivious to the effect his words were having.
That’s when I learned a valuable lesson about discretion. Discretion, my friends, is the ability to judge which secrets to reveal and which to keep, which truths to tell and which to withhold. It’s about understanding the impact of our words on others and choosing them wisely.
That day, I realized that sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is to remain silent. To listen, to empathize, and to respect the feelings of others. That’s the essence of discretion.
Applying Discretion in Life
Discretion is not just about knowing when to keep quiet. It’s about understanding the context, reading the room, and responding appropriately. It’s a skill that can be applied in all areas of life, from personal relationships to professional interactions.
So, my friends, I urge you to practice discretion. Be mindful of your words and actions. Remember, it’s not just about what you say, but how and when you say it. And sometimes, the most powerful message is conveyed in silence.
Until next time, remember to live wisely, speak kindly, and practice discretion.
Kev