Directness: A Lesson from a Funeral

Dear friends, today I’d like to share a story with you. A story that taught me the importance of directness in our lives. It’s a story that takes place at a funeral, a setting that might seem unusual, but bear with me.

The Funeral

Many years ago, I attended the funeral of a dear friend. His name was George. George was a man of few words, but when he spoke, his words carried weight. His silence was not a sign of his disinterest, but a testament to his belief in the power of directness.

The Lesson

At the funeral, George’s son, a man not known for his eloquence, was asked to speak. He stood before the crowd, his eyes brimming with tears, and said, “My father was a good man. He loved us. He worked hard. He is missed.”

That was it. No embellishments, no lengthy anecdotes, just a simple, direct tribute to his father. His words, in their brevity and directness, moved everyone present. It was a powerful lesson in the value of being direct.

Applying Directness in Life

Friends, we often feel the need to embellish, to add layers of complexity to our words and actions. But life has taught me that there is immense power in directness. Whether it’s in our conversations, our work, or our relationships, being direct can often lead to better understanding and stronger connections.

So, let’s strive to be more like George and his son. Let’s value the power of directness. Let’s say what we mean, mean what we say, and let our actions reflect our words. After all, life is too short for anything less.

Remember, my friends, directness is not about being harsh or insensitive, it’s about being honest, clear, and effective. It’s about respecting others enough to tell them the truth, and respecting ourselves enough to stand by it.

Conclusion

As we journey through life, let’s carry the lesson of directness with us. It may not always be easy, but it will always be worth it. And perhaps, in our own way, we can honor the memory of my friend George, a man who understood the power of directness.

Until next time, remember to be direct, be honest, and be kind.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev