When Praise Became My Compass: A Lesson from a Lecture

Good day, my dear friends. Today, I want to share a story from my past that taught me the true value of praise. It’s a tale that takes us back to my university days, attending a lecture that would forever change my perspective.

The Lecture That Changed Everything

It was a chilly winter morning, the kind that makes you want to stay wrapped up in your warm bed. But there was a lecture I couldn’t afford to miss. The topic? Psychology of Praise. Intriguing, isn’t it?

As I sat in the crowded lecture hall, the professor, a man of great wisdom and charisma, began to speak. His words were like a warm cup of cocoa on that cold day, comforting yet invigorating.

“Praise,” he began, “is not just a pat on the back or a word of appreciation. It’s a powerful tool that can shape a person’s self-esteem, motivation, and overall outlook on life.”

The Power of Praise

He went on to explain how praise can act as a compass, guiding us towards our true north. When we receive genuine praise, it reinforces our strengths and encourages us to keep pushing forward. It’s like a lighthouse in the storm, guiding us safely to shore.

But, he warned, praise should not be given lightly. It should be sincere and specific, focusing on the effort rather than the outcome. This way, it encourages growth and resilience, rather than fostering a fear of failure.

Applying the Lesson

That lecture left a profound impact on me. I started to see praise in a new light, as a tool for growth and motivation. I began to apply this lesson in my interactions, praising the effort and progress rather than just the result.

And you know what? I saw a remarkable change. People around me seemed happier, more motivated, and more resilient. They were more willing to take risks and step out of their comfort zones. All because of a few sincere words of praise.

Final Thoughts

So, my dear friends, remember the power of praise. Use it wisely and sincerely. Let it be your compass, guiding you and those around you towards growth and success. And never underestimate the impact of a few kind words.

Until next time, remember to keep learning, keep growing, and keep praising.

Yours truly,

Kev