Anticipation: A Lesson from a Nightmare

Dear friends, I want to share a story with you today. A story that taught me a valuable lesson about anticipation. It’s a tale that might seem a bit unusual, but bear with me. It’s about a nightmare I once had.

The Nightmare

One night, many years ago, I found myself in the grip of a terrifying dream. I was being chased by a monstrous creature through a dark, foreboding forest. The beast was relentless, and I could hear its heavy breath and thunderous footsteps growing louder and closer. The fear was palpable, my heart pounded in my chest like a drum.

The Awakening

Just as the creature was about to pounce, I woke up. My heart was still racing, and I was drenched in sweat. But as I looked around my familiar room, I realized it was just a dream. The fear began to subside, replaced by a sense of relief and safety.

The Lesson

As I lay there, catching my breath, I began to reflect on the dream. I realized that the fear I felt was not just about the creature chasing me, but more about the anticipation of being caught. The dread of what might happen was far more terrifying than the actual event.

And that’s when it hit me. Isn’t that true in life as well? How often do we spend our time worrying about things that might happen, rather than dealing with what is happening right now? How much energy do we waste on the anticipation of problems, instead of focusing on the solutions?

Anticipation: A Double-Edged Sword

Anticipation can be a powerful tool when used correctly. It can prepare us for challenges, help us plan for the future, and even motivate us to achieve our goals. But when it spirals into worry and fear, it can paralyze us and prevent us from living fully in the present.

So, my friends, let’s learn to use anticipation wisely. Let’s not let the fear of what might happen rob us of the joy of what is happening. Let’s live in the present, and deal with the future when it arrives.

Remember, life is not a nightmare to be feared, but a journey to be enjoyed. And the best way to enjoy it is to live fully in the present, with anticipation serving as a guide, not a jailer.

Until next time, remember to live, learn, and love.

Kev