The Game of Congeniality: A Lesson from the Past
Dear friends, today I’d like to share a story from my youth, a tale that taught me the value of congeniality. It’s a lesson that has stayed with me throughout my life, and I hope it will resonate with you as well.
The Board Game
It was a cold winter’s evening, and my family and I were gathered around the dining room table. The centerpiece of our gathering was a well-worn board game, its corners frayed from years of use. The game was Monopoly, a classic that many of you will know.
As the evening wore on, the competition grew fierce. My older brother, always the businessman, had cornered the market on hotels. My younger sister, ever the diplomat, had negotiated a series of beneficial trades. And I, well, I was struggling to keep my head above water.
The Lesson
As the game progressed, I found myself becoming increasingly frustrated. I was losing, and losing badly. But then, my grandfather, a man of few words but immense wisdom, leaned over and whispered something in my ear. He said, “Kevin, it’s not about winning or losing. It’s about how you play the game.“
At first, I didn’t understand. But as I watched my family laughing, joking, and enjoying each other’s company, I realized what he meant. The game wasn’t about amassing wealth or property. It was about spending quality time with the people we care about. It was about congeniality.
Applying the Lesson
From that day forward, I approached every game, every challenge, and every interaction with a new perspective. I focused less on winning and more on being pleasant, agreeable, and enjoyable to be around. And you know what? I found that I not only enjoyed life more, but I also became more successful in my endeavors.
So, my friends, remember this: In the game of life, strive not just to win, but to be congenial. For it is not the wealth we accumulate, but the relationships we build and the joy we spread, that truly matter.
Until next time, keep playing the game with a smile on your face and love in your heart.
Kev