Deference: A Lesson from the Saddle

Good day, dear reader. Today, I’d like to share a tale from my youth, a story that taught me the value of deference. This is a tale about a boy, a horse, and a lesson learned in the saddle.

The Boy and the Horse

Many moons ago, when I was but a young lad, I had the opportunity to learn horse riding. My teacher was a majestic creature named Thunder, a horse with a spirit as wild as his name suggests. Thunder was not a horse that could be tamed easily. He was strong, proud, and had a mind of his own.

Like many young boys, I was headstrong and eager to prove myself. I thought I could master Thunder with sheer will and determination. But, as I would soon learn, Thunder was not a creature to be dominated, but respected.

The Lesson in the Saddle

One sunny afternoon, I climbed onto Thunder’s back, ready to show him who was boss. But Thunder, sensing my arrogance, had other plans. He bucked and reared, refusing to be controlled. I held on for dear life, my pride preventing me from admitting defeat.

Then, in a moment of clarity, I realized my mistake. I was trying to impose my will on Thunder, rather than working with him. I was not showing him the respect he deserved. I was not showing deference.

So, I loosened my grip, relaxed my body, and spoke softly to Thunder. I stopped trying to control him and started trying to understand him. And, to my surprise, Thunder responded. He calmed down, and we began to move in harmony. That day, I learned that deference is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of respect and understanding.

Deference in Life

Deference, dear reader, is a powerful tool in life. It’s about recognizing and respecting the strengths and abilities of others. It’s about understanding that we don’t always have to be in control, that sometimes, it’s better to take a step back and let others lead the way.

Just like with Thunder, showing deference can lead to harmony and cooperation. It can help us build stronger relationships, achieve our goals, and become better people.

So, the next time you find yourself in a situation where you’re trying to impose your will, remember the story of the boy and the horse. Remember the value of deference. And remember, sometimes, the best way to lead is to follow.

Until next time, dear reader, remember to respect, understand, and show deference. It’s a lesson that has served me well in life, and I hope it will do the same for you.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev