Forbearance: A Lesson from an Adoption Journey
Dear friends, today I want to share a story with you. A story that taught me the true meaning of forbearance. It’s a tale of patience, perseverance, and the power of love. It’s a tale of an adoption finalization that changed my life forever.
The Long Wait
Many years ago, my daughter and her husband decided to adopt a child. They had been trying to have a child of their own for years, but life had other plans. They decided to open their hearts and home to a child who needed them. But as anyone who has been through the adoption process knows, it’s not an easy journey.
There were countless forms to fill out, interviews to attend, and a seemingly endless wait. It was a test of their patience and resolve. But they held on, believing in their dream of becoming parents.
The Test of Forbearance
One day, they received a call. A little girl was waiting for them. They were overjoyed. But their happiness was short-lived. The adoption process hit a snag. There were legal complications, and the finalization was delayed.
It was a difficult time. They had already fallen in love with the little girl. They had already started imagining their life with her. But now, they had to wait. They had to practice forbearance.
The Lesson Learned
During this time, I saw my daughter and son-in-law display a strength I had never seen before. They were patient. They were resilient. They never lost hope. They taught me the true meaning of forbearance.
Forbearance is not just about waiting. It’s about holding on to your dreams, even when the odds are against you. It’s about believing in the power of love, even when the world tries to test you. It’s about never giving up, no matter how hard the journey gets.
The Happy Ending
After a long and arduous journey, the day finally came. The adoption was finalized. The little girl was officially theirs. Their patience and forbearance had paid off. They were finally a family.
So, dear friends, remember this: When life tests your patience, practice forbearance. Hold on to your dreams. Believe in the power of love. And never give up. Because in the end, it will all be worth it.
Until next time, remember to live, learn, and love.
Kev