Lessons in Esteem: A Tale from a Baby Shower

Dear friends, gather round, for I have a tale to share. A tale that, like all good stories, carries a lesson. Today, we delve into the concept of esteem. Not just self-esteem, but the esteem we hold for others, and the power it has to shape our lives.

The Baby Shower

Many moons ago, I found myself at a baby shower. Now, I know what you’re thinking, “Kev, what were you doing at a baby shower?” Well, it was for my beloved granddaughter, and I wouldn’t have missed it for the world.

The room was filled with laughter, joy, and anticipation. Balloons floated lazily in the air, and the sweet aroma of baked goods wafted through the room. It was a celebration of life, of love, and of the future.

The Lesson

As the event unfolded, I noticed a young woman, sitting quietly in a corner. She was the expectant mother’s best friend, but she seemed out of place, uncomfortable. She was a single mother, struggling to make ends meet, and the joyous occasion seemed to weigh heavily on her.

Seeing her discomfort, I decided to engage her in conversation. We spoke about life, about struggles, and about the beauty of motherhood. But most importantly, I told her how much I admired her strength and resilience. I expressed my esteem for her, for her courage, and for her determination.

Her eyes welled up with tears, and she thanked me. She said that she often felt overlooked, unappreciated. But my words, my esteem, had made her feel seen, valued. It was a small gesture, but it had a profound impact.

The Takeaway

Esteem, my friends, is a powerful tool. It can lift spirits, inspire courage, and foster resilience. But it’s not just about self-esteem. It’s about the esteem we hold for others, and the power it has to shape their lives.

So, let’s make a conscious effort to express our esteem for others. Let’s make them feel seen, valued, appreciated. Because in the end, it’s the small gestures that make the biggest difference.

Until next time, remember: life is a journey, and we’re all in this together.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev