Believability: A Lesson from an Old Engagement

Dear reader, let me take you on a journey back in time, to a chapter of my life that taught me the true essence of believability. It was a time of love, commitment, and most importantly, engagement. I promise, by the end of this tale, you’ll have a new perspective on the power of believability.

The Engagement

It was the summer of ’72, and I was about to propose to the love of my life, my dear Margaret. I had planned the perfect evening: a candlelit dinner at our favorite Italian restaurant, followed by a moonlit walk in the park. But as the day approached, I was gripped by an overwhelming fear. Would she believe in my love? Would she believe in our future together?

The Power of Believability

Believability, my dear reader, is not just about convincing others of your truth. It’s about being so genuine, so authentic, that your truth becomes their truth. It’s about creating a bond of trust that can withstand the test of time.

As I knelt down on one knee, holding the ring in my trembling hands, I looked into Margaret’s eyes. I didn’t just tell her that I loved her. I showed her. I poured my heart out, expressing my deepest feelings, my dreams, and my fears. I was vulnerable, I was real, and I was believable.

The Lesson

And guess what? She said yes. Not because of the ring, or the romantic setting, but because she believed in me. She believed in us. That, my dear reader, is the power of believability.

So, whether you’re proposing to your loved one, pitching an idea to your boss, or simply trying to make a difference in the world, remember this: Be genuine. Be authentic. Be believable. Because when people believe in you, they’re not just accepting your truth. They’re joining you in it.

Until next time, remember to believe in yourself and others will follow suit.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev