Deference: A Lesson Learned on Vacation

Good day, dear reader. Today, I wish to share a tale from my past, a story that taught me the value of deference. This lesson, learned on a vacation, has served me well throughout my life. I hope it might do the same for you.

The Vacation That Changed My Perspective

Many moons ago, I found myself on a vacation in the picturesque landscapes of Italy. A country rich in culture, history, and tradition, it was a place that could teach a man many things, if he was willing to listen.

The Encounter

One day, while exploring the ancient city of Rome, I happened upon a local artist. He was an elderly gentleman, much like myself, with a twinkle in his eye that spoke of a lifetime of experiences. Despite our language barrier, we found a common ground in our shared love for art.

The Lesson

As I admired his work, I couldn’t help but offer some suggestions. After all, I was an experienced artist myself. But instead of taking offense, the man listened with patience and humility. He showed me deference, despite his own expertise. This was a man who understood that there was always something to learn, even from a stranger.

Understanding Deference

Deference, dear reader, is not about submission or surrender. It’s about recognizing the value in others’ perspectives and experiences. It’s about being humble enough to listen, learn, and grow. It’s about respect.

Applying the Lesson

Since that encounter, I’ve strived to practice deference in my own life. I’ve found that it not only enriches my personal growth, but also strengthens my relationships. It’s a lesson I learned on vacation, but one that has stayed with me ever since.

Final Thoughts

So, dear reader, I encourage you to practice deference in your own life. Listen more than you speak. Learn from everyone you meet. And remember, every person you encounter has something valuable to share.

Until next time, remember to respect, listen, and learn. It’s the granddad’s way.

Yours truly,

Kev