Discernment: A Lesson from a Birthday Party

Dear friends, I’m here today to share a story from my past, a tale that taught me a valuable lesson about discernment. It’s a story that revolves around a birthday party, a seemingly simple event that turned into a profound learning experience.

The Birthday Party

It was my grandson’s 10th birthday. The house was filled with the laughter and energy of young children, the air buzzing with anticipation for the cake and presents. But amidst the merriment, I noticed a young boy sitting alone, away from the crowd.

The Lonely Boy

His name was Tommy. He was a quiet, introverted child who often found himself on the outskirts of the group. On this day, he seemed particularly isolated, his eyes cast down, his hands fidgeting nervously.

The Gift of Discernment

Observing Tommy, I felt a pang of empathy. But I also felt something else – a sense of discernment. I realized that Tommy wasn’t just shy. He was feeling left out, misunderstood, and alone in a room full of his peers.

Discernment, my friends, is not just about understanding what is right or wrong. It’s about understanding the nuances of human emotions, about recognizing the unspoken words and the hidden feelings. It’s about empathy and compassion.

Reaching Out

So, I decided to reach out to Tommy. I sat down next to him, engaged him in conversation, and tried to make him feel included. Slowly, his eyes lit up, and he began to open up. By the end of the party, Tommy was laughing and playing with the other children.

The Lesson

That day, I learned a valuable lesson about discernment. It’s not just about making judgments or decisions. It’s about understanding people, their feelings, and their needs. It’s about reaching out, connecting, and making a difference.

So, my friends, let’s strive to cultivate discernment in our lives. Let’s strive to understand, to empathize, and to connect. Because in the end, that’s what truly matters.

Until next time,

Kev